Relationship coaching for partners seeking to deepen, repair, and strengthen their partnership
I help people see what’s actually happening in their relationships and within themselves—especially when it’s uncomfortable—and support them to act from that clarity.
Clients I work with appreciate my balance of compassionate and loving presence with the capacity to firmly interrupt unhelpful patterns and help new ones fall into place. I might be a fit for you if you’re queer, poly/nonmonogamous, a social justice activist, or just a couple/individual looking for deep presence and collaborative support.
Who I work with
Partners interested in learning how to do conflict better
Non-monogamous couples/triads/polycules working on their relational dynamics
Monogamous couples curious about exploring consensual nonmonogamy (CNM)
Partners, friends, and colleagues seeking support in facilitating repair around past harms
My approach
For all relationship types
Communication challenges can lead to either avoidance of conflict, or regular conflict that feels exhausting and brings a sense of hopelessness. My work helps partners discover where communication is getting stuck and how to repair harms and resentments that have built over time.
For monogamous couples exploring or considering non-monogamy
Challenges that appear when opening the relationship can cause a painful return to monogamy or even a breakup. I support these couples to form a greater sense of safety, to repair harms caused, and make a plan for the relationship moving forward.
For those practicing non-monogamy
Sometimes trust can be unexpectedly wounded when new partners enter the dynamic. In these situations, we identify where communications have broken down, do deeper processing of challenging feelings, and discover ways to repair harm.